Every year when the air shifts (just barely here in Georgia) and pumpkins start showing up on porches, photographers all around Atlanta prepare for the busiest season of the year. Fall family photos. Holiday minis. Christmas tree farms. Back-to-back sessions with quick turnarounds so families have cards in hand by early December.
I’ve done it. I’ve worked right up until Christmas, even squeezing in an extended family session between the holidays and the new year. I poured myself into serving well, building my reputation, making space for as many families as I could. And while I’m proud of that work, it came at a cost.
I’m reflecting on this while I choose to opt out of Christmas minis and lean into a slower holiday season this year.
There’s no denying that the holiday season brings a flood of requests for family photos. Families want to capture a moment in time, photographers want to meet that need, and the chance to boost income before year-end can be tempting.
But last year taught me that just because I can doesn’t mean I should. The long nights editing, the endless scheduling, the feeling of running from one session to the next — it blurred every line between my work and my personal life.
When I look back on last season, I remember the pride of delivering galleries that made families happy. But I also remember how tired I was. How little energy I had left for my own family during a season that’s meant to feel magical.
That realization has stayed with me. You can serve well and build a reputation without burning yourself out.
This year I’m choosing to slow down. (Well, after I somehow make it through November … whew!)
I’ll photograph a neighborhood Christmas event in our community on December 7th, and after that my books will stay open only to expecting mamas. I’m prioritizing my own family during the holidays. I’m also giving myself space to keep learning, to refine the services I offer and to make sure my heart stays at the center of this work.
When your business is so personal, boundaries can be hard. There’s no office door to close at the end of the day. But I’ve learned that protecting my time, especially around the holidays, is what allows me to keep showing up fully for my clients.
This year has been a season of learning — courses, admin work, website redesign, blogging. I’m grateful for the growth, but I know that sustainability requires intention.
Family photos are about connection and memory, not rushing through a trend or a one-size-fits-all setup. By slowing down and setting boundaries, I can give families what they deserve — thoughtful, intentional photography that reflects their lives as they really are.
If you’re an expecting mama, or looking ahead to family photos in the new year, I’d love to walk alongside you when the time is right.
For now, I’m choosing a slower holiday season. One filled with gratitude, intention, and time spent with the people who matter most.